Re:Feels guilty about one night stand and left sad sad neko: :-\ Dear Lisa,
first let me say how sorry I am to read your story. I'm sure you're a wonderful person who doesn't deserve what happend to you. Now there are only two things I can say 1. if you love him and are sure of his feeling fight for your relationship. 2. Don't let anyone else tell you what you should do because when it come to the matters of the heart only the person that is going through that pain knows. I wish you the best in the World and hope that it all works out for the best and that you end up HAPPILY EVER AFTER IN LOVE :-* ;)
Re:Feels guilty about one night stand and left Lisa80: Thank you for replying to my posts, I am just so confused right now about my situation. I love my husband, but eventhough he says that he loves me, I don't know if to believe him. I mean it hurt so much that he was unfaithful, but I realy thought that it was a mistake and that he would do anything to try to fix things with me, but nothing like that happened. He felt so bad that he just left me, he just didn't care how bad I felt. I've already cried too much, at first I would call him asking him for an explanation, but his answer is always the same "I don't know why I cheated". It's still hard for me to believe what I am going trough, I don't know where my marriage went wrong. Since we have been separated we've kept in contact almost every day, but the first month it was me the one that was always looking for him, trying to fix things, but I know I did not do anything wrong, but still I want to fix things. Lately I don't call him that much, I let him call me, he calls everyday, but he doesn't mention anything about getting back together, he says that he is trying really hard to feel better >:(, I really don't know what to do or why do I want to fix things, because everything could get worse, if that child ends up being his.
Re:Feels guilty about one night stand and left snowyheart: hey lisa,
I don't get it. Something seems strange to me about this whole thing.
I don't want to start speculating, but do you think he may be involved with the OW more that he lets on?
I just don't understand why he's not with you, working on your marriage. Something's rotten in Denmark.
Re:Feels guilty about one night stand and left Shanna: Okay my husband cheated and confessed....I said I wanted to stay and work things out and he didn't tell me to leave bc he would be the bad guy instead he did things to make me leave. (Like insisting they stay friends). anyway...maybe his leaving "because of his guilt" is his nice way of saying he doesn't want to be with you anymore.
I do wish you the best and if you have any Q's about my story please PM me.
Hugs
Sully
Re:Feels guilty about one night stand and left betteroffalso: First let me say how sorry i am that you are going through this. I have to agree with Sully on this one. Step back and LOOK at what he is doing. He has left. He is doing that because he wants to ..there is a reason, you just dont know what it is..that will rear its ugly head in time. My favorite quote is "when someone SHOWS you who they are, believe them the FIRST time" (my quote underneath :)) There is alot of truth in this. WHen emotions are high we tend to search for anything and everything to hold on, and what is really happening is very hard for us to accept or believe. Dont listen to what he is SAYING...listen to what he is DOING. I dont know if you are a christian or not (not preaching or anything!!) but the bible says "out of the hearts abundance the mouth speaks" meaning what is truly in our hearts shows in our lives. Sorry to say, you are seeing what is truly in his heart.
I hope this isnt todiscouraging for you, and it will be great if this does end positively!!
Just hang inthere and we are her for you! I know how your feeling..my story is similar.
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