Well, divorce is final today snowyheart: It's official. Today was the day. April 12th. It feels allright. I've come along way from the day my ex had me served. You don't even want to know how much of total and complete disaster I was for 5 months.
The main thing I want to say is "thank you" to ojar. I know that I would not be at the place I am right now, emotionally without your help. So much sharing, so much love, so much everything!! You are all freakin' awesome. It's amazing how much a month at ojar has helped me. Priceless.
Special props to some_guy, sheydp, jennicole, twg, timetobefree, sittingbear, lumpy... just for putting up with me...seriously!! And you should thank me too for having to put up with you. ;D
Thanks everyone!!!!
Re:Well, divorce is final today Lumpy: Dear Snowyheart,
Never thought of it as "putting up with you" but you're welcome just the same. I'm sure that this moment is kinda bittersweet for you but it does sound like you're handling it very well. It's funny how far some of us have come. At one point I dreaded that day of finality but now I anticipate it. With any luck I'll be joining you in July or August! Thank you too Snowy. Stay Sane.
Re:Well, divorce is final today timetobefree: Dearest snowyheart,
Every new beginning comes from some other beginning's end.
Great is the art of beginning, but greater is the art of ending.
I'm glad that you found ojar, as I have learned much from you and I hope you can say likewise. Our beginning may have been rocky, but I have grown to not only respect your opinions, but *gasp* even agree with some of them. ;D
Congrats on coming such a long way and I feel privileged to have played a role in that, even if it was just to aggravate the h*ll out of you. Just kidding...take pride in the journey you have completed, and look forward to the rest of it with hope, joy, and anticipation that good things await you. I know they do. And you deserve it.
Much ojar love to you,
Amy ;D
PS--Is it going to be sunnyheart soon??? ;)
Re:Well, divorce is final today sheydp: You really have come a long way, it is obvious in your posts... I have enjoyed our PMing, as you know, you made my evening much easier sometimes...
I hope you can find not only relief from the feeling of disaster, but true peace and happiness. I am glad you are ok with this day (1 day away from mine!)
Shey
Re:Well, divorce is final today some-guy: Yeah, thanks for puttin' up with me, eh? :P
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