Re:Backsliding ... stupid sad songs pauly: Are you girls all actually ready for a new relationship,I mean what's wrong with taking time out and re evaluating your status.
The old cliche must apply somewhere"someone comes along when you least expect",at most likely the appropriate time.
I'm fairly certain you are all attractive,intelligent people and the cause of your relationship breakdown was uniformly split but you shouldn't worry too much about the immediate future.
I hope it works out for you guys anyhow
Re:Backsliding ... stupid sad songs LettinGo: [quote author=pauly link=board=20;threadid=10041;start=0#msg80254 date=1113419182">
Are you girls all actually ready for a new relationship,I mean what's wrong with taking time out and re evaluating your status.
The old cliche must apply somewhere"someone comes along when you least expect",at most likely the appropriate time.
I'm fairly certain you are all attractive,intelligent people and the cause of your relationship breakdown was uniformly split but you shouldn't worry too much about the immediate future.
I hope it works out for you guys anyhow
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Pauly,
I actually am not concerned about the 'immediate future' ... more like the distant future. It is disheartening to see people ten and twenty years older and still alone ... I am just afraid that that will be me. I am afraid that, like I said earlier, I gave myself to someone that did not work out, and he will move on and live happily ever after, and I will never experience true love.
Might sound silly, but we girls get in that mood sometimes. ;)
Re:Backsliding ... stupid sad songs pauly: LG and all
That may be so but you can't force anything.You've loved before and it will happen again.
My point was; why worry?
Work on you and kids if they apply.Make yourself happy first but remember things take time.
Re:Backsliding ... stupid sad songs hollygolightly: Pauly - No, I'm not ready for and I am not seeking a new relationship. What I am saying, and I think the other women are saying, is that it feels like when we ARE ready to take that step, no one will be there for us. Yeah, yeah, I know, God has a plan for me greater than what I can see - I get that. I still have down days, moments of gloom and doom when all seems lost. I do not express that side of me in "real life," only here in a place where anonymous venting is allowed.
Realistically I see a new relationship happening in 2-4 years. By that time I will be 38 and still childless. Very depressing when all I ever wanted to be was a stay-at-home mom.
Everyone says to go out and do "what makes you happy." Well, you know what makes me happy? Baking cookies for a family that doesn't exist, playing with children I don't have, sewing costumes for the class plays that will never happen, etc.
You are right about one thing, I am an attractive, intelligent person. Sure, I had a part in the relationship breakdown, but *I* was willing to try-try-try. My husband didn't cheat, he just wasn't happy within himself and thought leaving the relationship was the answer. He aleady regrets it, but now it's too late.
Re:Backsliding ... stupid sad songs pauly: I was just looking from a pragmatic pov
But once again you are predicting in that someone wont be there for you?How so?
I have a question..how does anyone know when they are ready.Holly you stated a 2-4 year time frame,is that set in stone?
Anything can and will happen,it happens all of the time.
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