Re:Having Doubts riversandlakes: "ojar spectrum"...wow.
how about men in 30's. do they have the mid-life crisis? won't it be a sad tragedy for a couple hitting the crisis at the same time...
rj, please try to communicate with your husband? heart-to-heart talk?
Re:Having Doubts snowyheart: I would say that 30s is too young to call it a midlife crisis. It's common for spouses to hit crisis' at the same time, I believe it's called empty nest syndome.
I think acting on a personal crisis by divorcing, is the trend. A crisis is a strong word though, most times it's just periods of difficulty.