WHAT???? i_sing_alone: It's been a week since he told me he'd decided he never wanted to see my face or hear my voice again. Two weeks since I told him that (and he didn't listen... always has to have the last word.)
So, today... I'm down in the dumps thinking that it's raining and blah, the house is mess, and it's been exactly a week today since hearing his voice (after dreaming about him last night also,) and what does he do??? Sends me IM's saying he wants a physical relationship only with me, and he has to go, but would I please consider it and email him with details on what I'm willing to do.
WHAT???? Now I know he has lost his friggin' mind for sure!!!! (I just want to scream... I was trying so hard not to think about him at all.)
At least he didn't say something sweet to break my heart again, but now I will be thinking about this for the rest of the day! I am pretty sure he is playing on the fact that it's been exactly one week and is hoping that I miss him enough to do it.
Should I reply back what an a**hole he is, or just ignore? I'm thinking I should ignore.... ??
Re:WHAT???? amola: isa...
i say ignore it. don't even respond to it. he is probably trying to get a reaction out of you, and if you don't even acknowledge it, it will drive him nuts. and at this point, i'm all for driving any ex nuts! ;D
:)
amola
Re:WHAT???? teacherwriterguy: You know the answer - ignore it. Anything else just encourages him more contact and - given the info in the IM - he so doesn't deserve it!
You know what you are worth :)
twg
Re:WHAT???? Shanna: my vote: Ignore it!!
please dont' go down that path...it will just hurt that much more and make you feel dirty.
Re:WHAT???? i_sing_alone: Thank you all. I've made it this far... going to keep taking the deep breaths and ignoring him.
Thank you for replying- I was feeling like a leper there for a minute :)
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