He's slow about leaving, but still leaving PRH26: Well he's still living here but after 4 months of him telling me he doesn't want to be with me or even try to work things out, I told him counseling or he had to move out.
May 1, a week after we found out we're expecting our 4th child, he tells me he wants out. He loves me, but not in the same way as when we first got married. I knew things had been changing, but I was shocked. He had started chatting with other women starting in March and things had gotten a little weird. I finally told him he had to chose between me and his computer. Which of course is what started him with his I want out talk. Even then he hasn't done anything. Hasn't looked for a place, hasn't looked up anything about a divorce. This is how he is though. He still chats trying to make me angry enough to make the first move I'm sure.
I wish I knew where my great husband and father of my children went. He suddenly hates his life. Hates his job. I think he's addicted to chat and seems to be having a mid-life crisis.
We still get along well, so that will help with the kids, but it's killing me.
I hope most of that made sense.
Penny
