Re:Sexw/ the ex justmenow: Tell him to buy a magazine... ::)
Re:Sexw/ the ex JimB: How about not telling him anything? "No" should be sufficient. How he deals with his urges is really his business.
If he's your EX, your "help" is unlikely to be appreciated. So don't feel obligated to try to make him feel better in any way - that's his problem now.
Re:Sexw/ the ex bryce: My ex and I have been on-again, off-again since the divorce, and have hugged, kissed, snuggled, and probably had sex at least 4 times since the divorce became final.
Problem is, she is also on-again, off-again with the 11-year younger (19 year old) *boy*she dumped me for. This was unknown to me at the time, as well as the fact that she had quit her birth control shots, now next month she's expecting a baby that's probably his but *could* be mine (slight chance)!
And, the more I think of him with her, the more gross sex with her sounds (maybe my mild OCD) *despite* the fact that she still turns me on!
Somebody just shoot me!
- bryce
http://www.seds.org/~bryce/bryce1.jpg (goofy 8 year old-ish pic of me, minus beard)
