Break up story Please give advice lindseyb: Okay, I thought I'd try this because it couldn't hurt. My name is Lindsey and I'm 20 years old, I'm a college Jr. in Arkansas. About two months ago I met Carlos and fell completely head over heels. I had just broken up with my boyfriend of four years and had dated a few people, but there was nothing special. I met Carlos thru one of my friends friends. We hit it off and after a week of talking on the phone, he asked me on a date. It was great, I've never experienced such chemistry. To make a long story short, we dated for two months, talked everyday and were together quite a bit, after our second date we slept together. This was a giant step considering I had only been with my ex and I waited two years before I would sleep with him. So I really thought that this thing with Carlos was special. He's 28 and from California, after some stuff happened to him there he decided to move to Arkansas with his parents about 6 mos. ago. Last Mon. night he told me he was moving back. He left Tuesday night. I'm still in shock. He's called me several times and tells me how much he misses me. I've been a wreck, I cry at the drop of a dime, I have no appetite.... I know that people on here probably think that I'm being stupid, that they're going through divorces with children and I'm lucky. But it doesn't make it hurt any less.... I know I should cut off communication and get over it. Please Give me some advice...
Thank you,
Lindsey
Re:Break up story Please give advice mle: Welcome to Ojar, Lindsey
In your case, you may want to cut off communication.. if he has moved, that is a finality...
If I am reading correctly and he told you the day before he left, and he must have known for some time, had to pack etc, then he had no respect for your relationship and you are undoubtedly better off.
And yes you are still young, it will pass and YOU will thrive.
