Seeing my ex today hurting: I have not seen him or pretty much talked to him since March 25th...it has been pure hell. Absolute torture, going days without eating, not even knowing what day of the week it was, no sleep, feeling like my life was over.
Then out of the blue this morning - he calls me - and says "how did this all happen", and "i miss you" and "can I see you tonight?". Now I am really nervous..I am going to meet him, but I am really scared that if it doesn't go well - I will be back to how I was a month ago. I feel I can't trust him right now, I don't know what his intentions are...it always seems like things go along really well, I mean really well..then all of a sudden he disappears saying that he needs some space, then it all snowballs. The problem I have is that I never see it coming..it is always right out of the blue..I am really really scared right now.
Does anyone have any advice for me? He did tell me today that the OW is a nutcase, so is he just running back to me because she is a nutcase?
Re:Seeing my ex today ISITOBVIOUS: Dunno if this will help or not. But I am on the other side of the story, I am the new boyfriend of a gal who wants her ex back, you can read my post if you want. But here is my question, try taking control and ask yourself this,
"is him running back to you because the OW is a nutcase a good enough excuse for you to go back? Change is hard to deal with and it sucks, no one will tell you differently, but love is scarifice, the question to ask is how much sacrifice can you make until your no longer a person, you become a door mat. A door mat both ways, for him to walk in and him to walk out. I am currently okay with being the doormat, but that is slowly changing! Good Luck and have faith in God. He has a plan and will guide you through your struggles, only you know what is right!!!
