This is so unfair... voidinside: Pretty much the same boat MyLazyCat is in:
We were together for 11 years as a couple, known each other 13 years. In March she said she loved me but wasn't "In love" with me, that she wanted to see other people, see what was out there. In April she met a guy in person that she had been talking to on the Internet and on the phone, and that was it.
Since March I've been pretty much a wreck. I'll have a day or two where I feel sort of normal and a bit down, but then it hits me again and I'll go the next 2-3 days having at least one, sometimes more, strong crying bouts a day. Anything can set me off. I also feel sick and worry about my health a lot. I am 37 years old.
Well...came home a little early today since she asked me to and she's locked in the bathroom with her co-worker, and It's obvious what's going on in there. I get in and she slides out of the crack of the door trying to be slick about it. She avoids introducing me to her co-worker (who's kids she was 'babysitting' today) and she leaves quickly to go see a sick (ahem) friend.
I was doing so well this weekend when she worked all day Saturday and Sunday, but now I'm just a total wreck :(
I can smell his clogne everywhere in the house. I hope it sells quick.
I think I'm going to throw up now.
Re:This is so unfair... jt5639: Are you living with her right now? Can you get out of there somehow? I am so sorry you are going through this. And so sorry she is being so horrible as to bring that into your house when she's already hurt you so.
Seriously - is there a friend or family you can stay with until the house sells - or can you aske her to leave since she's put you in this position. I thin getting away from her would be best right now.
- JT
Re:This is so unfair... voidinside: I'd leave if I could, but I have $35 for two weeks and half a tank of gas. I just moved out here so I have few friends I can stay with. I guess I could ask her to leave but that means she would take the kids with her. If I could only make it through this please God I will be your faithful servant.
