Re:Nightmare Confirmed brynne: Thanks BB,
Yes it's worth than death b/c you have to live thru it & the other person is still there acting like NOTHING is going on ! That's the worst part, he's SO 2-faced, does he think I'm a complete IDIOT ??
Well, I'm a bit smarter than he thought now, arn't I ???
I am going to keep my cool for at least another week & see what play's out...let him keep IM-ing her & see how much he increminates himself !!
Thanks SO MUCH for the support, couldn't get thru this hell w/out you guys...will update as the dirt comes out.
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Re:Nightmare Confirmed grober: Hope,
I'm so sorry that you're having to go through this. The day I found out about my X's affair was the worst day of my life. I never knew what shock felt like before that. It was horrible.
You've got some trying times ahead, so try to take care of yourself.
Good luck.
Re:Nightmare Confirmed DaisyGarden: I'm so sorry! :( It's so painful, I can remember those same feelings while reading your post. And I never even found proof, he finally admit it to me after lying for 5 months. He admit it after they broke up, when he wanted to once again try and work things out with me.
He carried it on for 5 months, and in court it doesn't matter one bit. He is in the army, and could be thrown out for cheating, but I had no proof, except what he admit. But, in court..... well, it won't even get brought up. I'm so sorry!
Re:Nightmare Confirmed JASPER: I am so sorry that your worst nightmare has come true.The only good part is you knew all along so it was really know big shock for you.
Now comes the hard part dealing with it.I have to agree with everyone else when they say calm down and think about what it is you want before you confront him with this.
I feel so bad for you because your just at the start of this process so you must stay strong and try not to make any spur of the moment decisions.Take time ant really think about which direction you want this thing to go in.
Pray for the strength to get through this you'll need it!
Re:Nightmare Confirmed brynne: Who would have thought it could get any worse ???
I am in the process of investigating, have several people helping me & he has 4 online alias's. It is sick, they are explicit names & he has been talking to someone who is a bi-female. How could this happen to me ?? Now I'm concerned about STDs, I'm going to have to go to the gyno & pray they find nothing. This is worse than an affair, he's like a sex-crazed maniac. SICK SICK SICk, my stomach is churning just thinking about it.
I had to act like nothing was wrong last night, on the advice on my atty friend. He called 2 times yesterday on my cell to "see where I was". Yeah right, it's his own guilt talking - you guys were so right, cheaters act suspicous of you when they are the ones w/ suspicous behavior.
This sums up my feelings...UNBELIEVABLE !!
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