Re:Horrible Morning NotADoormat: Where is it written in the rulebooks that you have to be happy? I don't think you're selfish - just trying to deal with some very painful feelings. Given that I had to bring two kids through a divorce I will confirm that it was not (and still is not) easy. I can imagine how you must feel, though.
You're not a bad guy, just a nice guy who was dealt a bad hand. Let's just reshuffle now and start over, ok? Chin up! Think of your divorce as a "do-over" and you'll eventually get to have your own family with someone you love dearly. :)
Re:Horrible Morning niceguy: Thanks everyone..this too shall pass.
Ok now for who's the last person I should talk to this about???? You guessed it .... X called. She says oh I can understand why you are sad I want to have a kid too, I just don't have the money or a decent place to live. Hmmm.... yes that's true, but you asked for this. Arrrgh!! (I think I'm cutting my phone privelages off ;))
Oh well, it's not that bad. Someday I'll find that person who I can have a family with.
Thanks again everyone
Re:Horrible Morning DaisyGarden: Just wanted to add some more support! I could just cry thinking about friends having babies. Weddings are easier for me. I'm at the age where friends are getting married, and the baby talk comes up often. All of them sitting around asking "when are you going to start trying?" Man, it hurts. I know I'd have been pregnant or trying at this time if I were still with s2bx, and now....who knows. My daughter will neve have a FULL sibling. It's all just sad. But, I also think you have to be thankful you're not divorcing with a child involved. Because that's a whole other pain.
Hang in there!
Re:Horrible Morning wakepner: Hey NiceGuy,
Just wanted you to know that I am thinking of you... it always seems as though we have bad days together. Hope you are doing okay.
~w
