Re:How much worse can this get? NotADoormat: I agree - posting on the blog isn't a good idea. Take the high road. Everyone who is worth your time already knows the real story I imagine. Who cares what everyone else knows. Sounds like your life will be so much better off without him. I know this is painful and I'm so sorry you're having to go through that. I wish I could say something magic to make you feel better.
I wouldn't invest too much in the "woman of his dreams" because you held that title at one time too. Sounds like his dreams like to fade into mist due to a short attention span. Don't even read his trash anymore - it's not worth it to inflict such pain upon yourself. :P
I wish you the best.
Re:How much worse can this get? ostia: I held the "woman of his dreams" title since he met me when we were 16 and 15, respectively. That's 18 years, and that's why this is so hard and so unbelieveable. He met this new woman online less than 6 months ago, and has spent exactly 3 weeks in her company (they lived in different cities). However, it is what is it is. I stood by him for all those years...I helped him finish college, and saw him through treatment for testicular cancer. If he wants to throw all that away for a chimera, I figure that's his business and his loss.
Re:How much worse can this get? NotADoormat: Sounds like she's the "woman of his 'wet dreams'" if you ask me. Should be interesting when he wakes up... ;D
Re:How much worse can this get? ostia: Indeed...I'm not ordinarily a vindicative type, but I do find myself hoping he'll suffer a lot of pain and regret when he realizes what he's thrown away so rashly. It just seems fair that he should have to deal with the consequences of his actions, and that he should suffer pain as he's caused me to suffer so much pain.
However, that's not always the way it works, so I can't count on it...but I can hope! ;D
Re:How much worse can this get? barelybreathing: Take the high road. Hold your head up and just keep moving forward.
What a lost soul he has become. No tact and no decorum.
He is living in an unrealistic world right now. Trust me, when the euphoria of this new woman wears off and they have to deal with relationship issues it will be so very different for him.
But I don't care about him. I care about you. Do not do anything you will regret. Don't bother posting on his blog or anything else. It will suck you into a negative vacuum that you do not need to be in.
Eighteen years is a very long time and he owes you some respect. And if he is not giving you that respect than he is not worthy to have someone like yourself in his world on any level.
Bless you sweetie, it will all be okay.....
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