CONFLICTING SCHEDULES JASPER: Ok where shall I began I haven't posted for awhile now haven't had any thing worth sharing.Me and the ex have been working towards reconciling the last couple of weeks. Things have been going ok I guess we've been going to counseling toghether and thats been going alright.
The counselor thought we should try dating each other over again so I guess thats what we've
been doing he still hasn't moved in his new place yet so he continues coming over my house and stays the night.
My problem is this which I've mentioned before is he works from 4:00 pm till 12:00 am I work from 9:00 am til 6:00 pm. I'm realizing I have a problem with this because I am so bored when he is at work. I haven't any children so there is nothing domestic for me to do to occupy my time. A lot of this time is spent with friends that he don't like because there all single.
I also find myself missing things like going to dinner movies or just the stuff couples normally do.When I'm at work I never talk to him he calls me right before he gets ready to go in and when he is getting off he gets to my house usually about 12:00am and we stay up til 2:00 sometimes watching tv which cuts into my sleep because I have to get up in the morning.I just dont know if I want to have a relationship with someone I never get to see or spend time with let alone go back into a marriage like this.
I'm just curious what you all think about this situation I mean it's hard enough trying to get back on track from a seperation not to mention infidelity, and a funky work schedule. And I understand the man has to work ,but I feel like I'm suffering or missing out on something because of it.
Re:CONFLICTING SCHEDULES Brian75034: Jasper,
Print out that posting you just wrote and give it to him.
Try for both to make compromises and work it out. Im SURE there is a comperable solution in there somewhere.
B
