Re:2 dates, and he wants to get serious gumby55555: Ahh, ya know, I'm having issues with that myself... I'm also very flattered by the fact that the girl I'm seeing now is so much into me and it really soothes the bruised ego... but I'm just not there and just am not into her the same way. I think we should all just go grab a couple of drinks and be disinterested and removed together... :) But, believe me, it's a good thing that you're not pushing yourself into a situation like that... I'm usually a VERY affectionate, empathetic, and feeling person but I just can't open myself up like that right now at least not to her. And I suspect you might be having similar issues, perhaps? Don't worry, sweetpea... just give it time. I think you're doing exactly the right thing by testing the waters but not jumping in completely... I'd only start getting worried if you lose interest in baking! ;)
Re:2 dates, and he wants to get serious sacoderisa: haha, see, I don't have that problem..........wait.......maybe cause i haven't been able to get a date :'(
Re:2 dates, and he wants to get serious jillieb44: Ahh, ya know, I'm having issues with that myself... I'm also very flattered by the fact that the girl I'm seeing now is so much into me and it really soothes the bruised ego... but I'm just not there and just am not into her the same way.
Gumby, could you expound on this please? Does the girl know you're not that into her but she wants to hang out with you anyway?
Just curious, cuz the last guy I dated seemed a bit more into me than him at first, I like to take my time, and then once I thought we had something nice going, he told me that there was no chemistry romantically and he didn't want the same things as me (though his e-mails, IMs, and body language said otherwise).
If you're just not that into a woman, when do you let her know? Before or after you've been intimate?
Trying to get a man's perspective here. This whole dating thing is very new to me.
Jillie
Re:2 dates, and he wants to get serious MichelleOC: Gumby!
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Absolutly!
Re:2 dates, and he wants to get serious i_sing_alone: Um.. is that E---n ?
That could very well be my ex. Be very afraid!!!
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