His cruelness is unbearable lvaughn24: My husband and I were having a discussion the other day and I asked him why he cheated. He said because in the past 7 years I was a deadlay he could get more movement from a pillow. I dont know if i can talk about this but it really hurts my feelings if i was that bad why did he not cheat until our 7th year. Why did he marry me and y did he stay i asked he said because a guy has to get it somehow and i was there. He tells me im a bad mom and a bad person. He says he doesnt respect me and hasnt loved me since we dated and just married me so i wouldnt leave. he has another woman hes living with and says shes better than i ever was and the relationship with her is better than ours ever was. He also makes comments about my weight wont let me use our car pays no child support.Im a little chunky 5' 5" like 150 pounds he calls me cow heifer and cusses me out all the time.
Re:His cruelness is unbearable lvaughn24: he also gave his girlfriend my phone number and she harasses me. I will not allow my children to go with him because of her. She lost one of her own children for reckless endangerment, has asked me and some other people if we want to get in on selling lsd to children shes been arrested for drug posession, and contributing to the delinquency of a minor am i just being a b#tc# or would you be concerned to. I feel she is a danger to my kids.
Re:His cruelness is unbearable Thinkin: Hey you don't deserve to be put thru that, I would get as far away as you can from him. If you were close I'd say where is he and kick his ass for you cause what he's doing is so wrong. You don't treat people like that. If he acted that way to someone he didn't know he'd most likely get his head knocked off. He does it to you cause he knows you will take it.
Don't let him do it anymore, just get away and have no contact. If he doesn't pay child support then there is no reason to even talk to him at all. I don't have kids so I really have no idea of how that would work but it seems your getting nothing healthy from him.
Take care of you,
Thinkin
Re:His cruelness is unbearable i_sing_alone: Get a lawyer. He has a legal right to see the kids, no matter if he pays child support or not, since he is the biological parent. The only way you can have that right taken from him is with court.
:( Sorry to be the bearer of bad news!
Re:His cruelness is unbearable leia: The chic he's living with is straight TRASH!! Selling drugs, lost her damn kids, can we say lost her damn mind! If she's into drugs then so is he! BELIEVE IT!!!!! He was probably on drugs when he said that evil, wretched shit to you! He picked a piece of trailor trash and then wants to act like she's the bomb, WRONG!!!!! He's on drugs, that's the connection, you are the good woman that he can't rise to the occasion to be with. Protect your children and get your number changed. If she keeps calling, call the police, have the line tapped and put her in greater risk! She's probably on probabion, so she doesn't need to be harrassing you, cause that's against the law. Use it to your advantage and look at them like losers of the world! If you are happy with yourself, then everything is cool, but if you're insecure at all about your weight, it's a perfect time to loose weight, tone up, look better than ever, then laugh in his face!
