Re:What am I doing? AmyMarie1972: Hi,
I am sorry to say this but you are the one who has decided to end the relationship and now whatever your husband wants to do or whoever he wants to see does not have anything to do with you.
You should be wanting him to be happy, but also allowing him to make his own mistakes if that is what they turn out to be. If you really want to be his friend then you will just be there to help him get through the mistakes that he makes.
Are you so certain that you want your freedom. if you feel this strongly about the thoughts of him with another woman then it could be that the certainty of you wanting to actually leave is in doubt.
Amy
Re:What am I doing? riversandlakes:
In Jim we trust!
"here's what NOT to do
No drinking/drugs.
No men.
No decisions. Save that for when your freedom time is done."
Make sure it is time well-spent. Do unto others as you would have done unto you. It is NOT meant to be used to checkout the OM (if any) if he is serious ;((( I was just about to repeat my story here ;(((
imho, "Space and time" just gets abused again and again and again (go on like the Energizer bunny) it has a certain ghastly stigma to it. Here, there, ojar and everywhere.
All the best, adpie.
Re:What am I doing? sourpuss: yes - tough cookies, babe.
you're the one who wanted "freedom" and you don't get to be pi$$ed off that he's enjoying his.
time to put on your big girl panties and DEAL WITH IT.
Re:What am I doing? ADPIE24: I know, I know, you all are right. I guess I just got a little hurt because I still haven't moved out yet.
Some advice, I am coming here for advice. I appreciate all advice given but I don't appreciate some of the rude comments from people. I don't think I need to grow up because I am grown up.
if anyone should understand the many feelings I am having going through this, I thought it would be here, But I guess I am wrong,
Thanks to those who have given me their thoughts.
BYE!!
Re:What am I doing? AmyMarie1972: Hi again,
The feelings that you are experiencing of pain are normal.
It is difficult being the one who makes the decision to leave i guess maybe just as difficult as it is for the person who is being left.
It would be sad for you to leave this site and I do hope that you dont.
Take care
Amy
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