Re:my story..tell me what u think AmyMarie1972: Hi,
Finding someone else wont help you to forget and get over her and would not be fair on you or the person that you find. You need to give yourself time.
Alot of people go all out to please the one that they love even if it is at the expense of their own happiness. The problem that I think with that does not lie with the person who is giving it all but with the person that takes without the consideration of the other person and without giving anything back.
Love should be about giving and taking and compromise. It should also be about working things through together. It sounds as though your ex is incapable of doing this.
Take each day as it comes and time will help you to move on.
Take care
Amy
Re:my story..tell me what u think sweetal: I totally agree about the giving and taking..my relationship was once like that...but my ex(even to her own admittance) just has a problem with over critizing and hyper judging...i compromised a lot for her and for such a long time tried to wrok specific on these things , but even now, i dont want to give up on things
Re:my story..tell me what u think sweetal: well its been about a month or more since my ex and i broke up....i still have mixed feelings...i want to be with her..sometimes..but she has gotten so mean...unfortunatly she knows how to push my buttons...she wants to know things about my future and i dont give in to telling her but some part of me does...i miss lots of things about her but then i realize how manipulating of my generousityand love she became over time...yesterday i threw a huge party and she didnt know about it..she tries to comover to the house and play mind tricks...but i am suspecting she is jealous or something....is this part of the breakup? It seems like things are so weird sometimes
