Re:question for the women that have broken up cosmochick222: SHE DOES NOT WANT TO BE WITH YOU.
end of story.
<Michael - deleted political comment>
Re:question for the women that have broken up MichelleOC: Confused pete - youre very antagonistic.
Politics have nothing to do with your gal wanting to run like hell away from you.
Re:question for the women that have broken up summerparis: Hi, Confused Pete, so sorry to hear about your difficulties. I can't tell you whether your GF/fiancee is a decent sort or not, but I can tell you my story in the hopes that it helps you understand.
I was involved with a man, living together, and in the spring we had discussed getting engaged by the end of the summer. He was and is a very good person in many ways. I liked him a lot in spite of having some questions and doubts about him and him and me being a good team. At the time we discussed the engagement, I believed that these doubts would be resolved with time. Well, they were, but not in favor of us staying together.
We were out with some friends on Memorial Day weekend back then and it suddenly became crystal clear to me that we should not be together, that we didn't have the makings of a good couple, and that we were not very compatible. I hate to say it, but it was the love you, but not in love with you moment. I really cared about him and I didn't want to hurt him for anything. I agreed to go to counseling with him but it only made me more sure that we were not right for each other.
Breaking up with him was very painful and sad. I didn't want to hurt him but there was no way I could continue living a lie. I was very sad for a long time because I knew that he was very hurt. But I knew that i had tried my very best to keep us together, and that we were not meant to be.
I hope that this helps. I realize it may not be what you want to hear.
Re:question for the women that have broken up PinkGoose: Hi Confused Pete,
Sorry for your pain. You sound very angry and hurt more than confused.
It must have come as a shock to know she is not in love with you anymore and wants to leave you.
Its hard, but after reading all your posts, it looks like there is no hope of her wanting to get back together with you.
You met her when she was a young young girl, and I can only imagine that she feels shes not living her life as she really and truly wants.
Give her her indepandance. Dont try to manipulate her into staying.
The longer you drag it out, the longer you'll remain angry, hurt CONFUSED
Re:question for the women that have broken up turning leaf: OK Pete listen, you're lucky she's honest with you. Would you rather that she beats around the bush, has an affair on you and tell you the classic: I LOVE U BUT I'M NOT IN LOVE WITH YOU? come on!
She's saving both of you time and energy. She's saving you the humiliation of finding out later that really, there is a third party. Or that her life is so much happier without you there.
Click More for the next page.
