Re:when does it get easier? riversandlakes: tato, it gets better (not easier) when the wound heals; slowly but surely. realize it is a rollercoaster ride. some days you think you are alright, only to step three steps backward.
just accept that this is the pain; perhaps the price to pay for loving deep. it will pass , as many on ojar has survived.
stay strong; stay alive. this, too shall pass.