Re:Breakin' up is hard to do..... Chey: Makes sense....a good career move is a rare creature. Hope the foal does well. Any Ojarians on Houston you can tool around with?
Re:Breakin' up is hard to do..... jen: Spec~
So sorry to hear this...but, you're right, you deserve more from a relationship.
Take care of yourself-
mtmo
Re:Breakin' up is hard to do..... Lumpy: Howdy Spec,
Great to see some oldtimers return! Just wish the update was a happier one. Glad to hear that you haven't had to give up your horse. I was just wondering what kind of commitment are you looking for from him? Ten weeks isn't exactly a lot of time. I hope you haven't given up on him. You both seem to be genuinely good people and I'm pulling for the you! That having been said I've always admired your brutal honesty and uncompromising nature. I hope he knows what he's doing. Having been burned once it's sometimes hard to jump back into the fire. Hope to see you around.
Re:Breakin' up is hard to do..... Spectrum: At this point with the questions I've been getting it has been very tempting to dive into a litany of venting, but I would prefer not to do that.
Just let it suffice to say that I didn't feel I was demanding anything you wouldn't expect from a young relationship.... I wasn't expecting a marriage proposal and I was more than happy to live in my own apartment and only see him a couple evenings a week.
Unfortunately, I didn't have a motivated partner and that is just that.
Spectrum.
Re:Breakin' up is hard to do..... gumby55555: Hey Spec, I'm so sorry that things didn't work out. Half of me is glad to have you back as I used to follow your posts quite frequently back when I was in stalker mode but the other half feels terrible that you're back... you seem like a genuinely good person and I have no doubt that someone as smart, pretty, and downright nice as you will soon find exactly what (and who!) you're looking for... and then you can come back and gloat how perfect everything is while all of us just sit back giving you the ol evil, jealous eye... :) All the best!
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