Re:big fat icky man---why did I pick him? Chelle30: Thank you all for your wonderful replies. I really wish I had found this site sooner! It's, I feel stupid saying this, but it's nice to know that there are women and men that are out there that know what I'm going thru. I only wish that none of us had to experience this side of life. Maybe I am over emotional and expect too much, but I would like to truely believe that there is real love out there. Be they funny looking or good looking....someone can love for real, right?
So to all those who have gone thru similar experiences...what can I say...be careful, think wisely, and I will try to do the same, I guess....
Chelle
Re:big fat icky man---why did I pick him? Chey: I can relate to the feelings of sympathy for the next g/f. My husband has a new g/f who I feel a LOT of sympathy for. He is treating her exactly the same way he did to me...using her exactly the same. I really feel for her. I think I might start an ex wives club. his first ex and I are great friends now, and feel a LOT of joint sympathy for the new girl...but you know what...the same as I thought she was the wicked witch of the west because of his lies about her, so will his current g/f believe I am evil and horrible. So she'll find out for herself, the poor sap.
As harsh as it sounds, I'm grateful he's now someone elses problem, and too distracted to worry about me now.
Re:big fat icky man---why did I pick him? summerparis: I understand your feelings of compassion for any new GF that comes along...no one should have to suffer through such shabby treatment!
Re:big fat icky man---why did I pick him? Chey: Hey Chelle,
Just wanted to check in and see how things were going?
Chey
Re:big fat icky man---why did I pick him? Chelle30: Chey
Your support and friendship, along with others that have posted comments and suggestions, have kept me going. Honestly, I have good days, bad days and those damn days when I don't want to get out of bed, and I wan t to cry until I can't feel anymore. Those are the days you'll find me in here....
Thank you so much!
Chelle
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