Sex with the EX Ed Nargocat: I have been separated for 5 months now and I tell you, the last time I had sex was with my ex back in March. The funny thing is that when my then wife left in Dec. I was apparently a wife beating, child beating maniac and that she was going to have to flee the country with the kids ... etc.
Well, less than a month after that we were talking again and I had joint custody of the kids. In March, I spent a week at her new place and I tell you, I had more sex in the first three days than I had had in 4 years of marriage. It was spectacular ... all to say that it put me back emotionally to when she left because she just went and pulled the plug and did it to me again. Now I am ready to get out there.
So, even though you may want to DON'T EVER, EVER, EVER sleep with your ex.
Re:Sex with the EX scraft: I agree such a horrible idea! Even though most couples who split up will end up having sex a couple of times. Sometimes, it's kinda like a final goodbye. Or, most couples will try to get back together which of course leads to sex 99% of the time. I learned my lesson I've had sex with 2 of my ex's so not a good idea. The first one was my ex husband which he took as a sign that I wanted to get back together, and that was never the case. It was more or less that was all I knew for a long time. It was safe, comfortable, and something I saw as some sort of stability even though I had no intention of trying to work on the marriage. The second was my ex bf of almost 2 years. He did the same thing to me that I did to my ex husband. So, I can just imagine how he felt about it cuz I felt pretty stupid.
Re:Sex with the EX AmyMarie1972: I too have been there and done that. Sex with the ex is a really bad idea and should not happen.
All it is on their part is lust, whereas on your part you see it as a way back to the relationship that you miss. All it does is messes with your head and heart.
Definately a NO GO area!!!
Amy
Re:Sex with the EX gulfcoast: Unless the sex is great and you can realise it is just sex.
Re:Sex with the EX Thinkin: Did this but didn't take it as we'd be getting back together. I'm pretty sure it was just sex but I can see how it would be bad for someone who take it as a sign of getting back together. It didn't bother me.
