Re:How much do I tell him? loshyra: Trust me they NEVER respond like you think. My littlest one has RA and my ex, when he found out...thought not a big deal she will get over it (YEAH RIGHT!!!) She has had it for 5 years now. He never went to one appointment, until I asked him if the girls could stay with him for a while. BUT I know that even though they don't react like you or I would want them to, you would hate yourself for not telling him and for keeping it from him....
Re:How much do I tell him? twobeautifulkids: you're very right. i couldn't keep it from him. it's not in my character.
Re:How much do I tell him? Shanna: I let my kids' father know when they are sick if he calls. He doesn't answer when I call him. If it is something serious I will call and leave a message.