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Re:Kick Me loshyra: I disagree with this "Yeah, but loving means holding your tongue when it is inappropriate!" Mainly because in my second marriage I held my tounge and shouldn't have. Loving doesn't mean holding the tounge, it means that you are able to discuss, agree and disagree with everything and anything...and still love each other...still want to be around each other, and know that it just makes you that much more attracted to each other..
The other thing that I want to say, I am sorry sweetie. I had a relationship like this once. And it hurts BAD! You can't choose who you love....you can choose to do something about that love or not....You are not nuts. You put your heart out there for someone that you thought would give it back. It was unfortuante that he was not in the same part of his recovery as you are. Don't give up!!! You will be able to get over this, will love again!
Don't worry about posting things here....you need to get it out and we are here to listen and help as much as we can..
Re:Kick Me loshyra: Smart person....Very smart person... ;)
Re:Kick Me sheydp: It isn't the money that is important (though that is very nice - try NOT to get ripped off! ;) ;D) but the fact that you are ready to take that step. That is payment in and of itself...
You will be ok. You are doing wonderful things for yourself - keep posting!
Shey
Re:Kick Me loshyra: [quote author=poetryofthings link=board=20;threadid=12006;start=0#msg97987 date=1116895827">
I agree. Now, I wish I were capable of such a thing. I feel like such a loser, Loshyra. I really do. What is wrong with me?
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Sorry I didn't reply earlier to this sweetie. I had my tonsils out a little while ago and the throat is killing me today. so been sleeping and in and out of it all day...all week :)
You are not a loser....nor is there anything wrong with you. You are just going through a really horrible thing. It is always hard, the first real relationship and breakup post divorce. I think that is one of the hardest ones. You will be ok, you will learn from this and be stronger then you ever were before. TRUST ME!! My relationship that I had like this one, the man was from Denver, me from SLC, we met while I was dating a friend from Denver. My and the friend broke up soon after I met this man. So me and the man talked and talked and talked. He seemed to be everything I wanted and needed. I flew him to SLC to see me. A few weeks after that, while I was at work and the night before I left to go to Denver to see him, I got a voicemail telling me never to contact him again, that he hated my guts....blah blah. Still went to Denver to visit other friends, however half way through the drive, I got a call from my boss laying me off me,(WHATEVER....as soon as they laid me off, they realised that out of all the people that worked there, I was the only one that did any work. And the man that decided to let me go was demoted quickly)How is that for a sh!ty day for you?? But you will move on eventually and be a better person, I promise. :) I know I am
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