ex talks about sex tatortot0601: My husband and I have been seperated for about 1 month and a few days ago he started reminiscing about our sex life. It was incredible, but I just dont know how to interpret his reminiscing. I have learned that sex can not make a marriage work, no matter how good it is! So I dont want to think that his reminiscing even means that he misses me. ???I cant ask him, b/c I have promised myself I would not go down that road of seeing if he wants to reunite. Even if I did not ask, I know he is not good at talking about his feelings, never has been, so I could not expect it now, but I just dont know how inerpret that! Any advice???
Re:ex talks about sex bentnotbroken: I think if he is talking about when you used to have sex, he is thinking about when you used to have sex. And if he is thinking about when he used to have sex with youmy guess is it is his way of feeling out the situation. You are one step ahead of me. You already know that sex will not save a marriage. I have just very recently learned that, and it hurt like he!! to find out. I felt used and once it happened he had no problem staying away until the next time he wanted to "see" me. Funny, it was about a month after our seperation, and he also called me wanting to take a walk down memory lane. If your gut is telling you that he is trying to feel out the situation, I'd say trust your gut!!!
