STBXW Was having affair. jtim10: Well I pulled my old computer out of storage and hooked it up tonight, neede some old files off it. Thought I would check my e-mail while I was at it and when I opened it up it opened to the STBXW's email. She had saved her log-in and password to my computer! Well since we are still legaly married I thought I would take a peak at her e-mail. Hey it was on my computer, I wasn't snoping! LOL WOW not only has she been having an affiar she has saved all his e-mails, letters, pictures, etc...
They were talking back all the way to last July! Each one got a little more risky, she gave him her cell phone number and then the "meeting" . All the "if you leave your husband I will take care of you" crap. The guy is a nut case, that is obvious from reading the crap that spewed out of him. And she played the victim and made me out to be the bad guy. *^&%%*) Man I'm mad!!!
Re:STBXW Was having affair. jtim10: Thanks. In a way I'm glad I found out about all the lies and what kind of a person she really is. I think it will help bring closure for me. STill angrey though!
Re:STBXW Was having affair. jimloveless: it really helped me find a new mindset when i found out, too. all of the sudden, i didn't feel like a badguy any more. i thought back to the times when i could have cheated on her and didn't... we are better than they are, tim.
let youreslf be angry. it will naturally die down after a while.
Re:STBXW Was having affair. penguin: My current b/f does that... I mean meets chicks online, and he saves his passwords on the puter. So I have asked him about it, and he said he signed up for these sites before we were together ( two year ago ), and that he's just curious and checks on them from time to time. The most recent thing, is he wanted to introduce another woman into our relationship. I laughed it off, thinking, well, that's every man's fantasy. Well, aparently he is actually looking (or was) until I put an end to that. Oddley enough, when he was looking at these sites, he would put in that we are a couple seaking a woman.. and he'd put MY e-mail address on it!!!!!!! So, now I get all sorts of interesting women in my area seeking a couple to fool around with. YUCK! He said he's just goofing off and he'd never do anything without my permission. Which unfortunately, I believe considering he plays on his computer every waking hour at home. He never leaves the house except for work. So, I'm not that worried about it, but the thought still is in the back of my head. I've told him, if another woman comes in, I'm leaving. That's all there is to it.
Re:STBXW Was having affair. ISITOBVIOUS: [quote author=Penguin link=board=1;threadid=12018;start=0#msg98170 date=1116942465">
he would put in that we are a couple seaking a woman.. and he'd put MY e-mail address on it!!!!!!!
YUCK! He said he's just goofing off and he'd never do anything without my permission.
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Just a crazy quick question Penguin!
I am guess by your words he DIDN't have permission to put your email address on these sites!
I am guessing PenguinMAMA Thinks the world of this one ;D
