Re:STBXW Was having affair. metoo: Here are a couple of signs. I got this from a Phd psychologist who has handled affairs and recovery for over 30 years. They are 2 things you might not even think of.
#1 She will not ever let you see her cell phone, and often puts it in silent mode.
#2 She sleeps with her purse by her bed, and will safeguard it.
Kind of odd, but these 2 signs are highly correlated to a cheating wife.
Re:STBXW Was having affair. metoo: Oh I forgot one more sure sign of cheating.
Increase interest in going to "workout at the gym". She might even shower before she goes to the gym. This is another sign that a woman may be having an affair.
Re:STBXW Was having affair. ChiefWiggum: jtim,
I'm glad you found out. Definately will make dealing with all this easier. A similar thing happened to me. I found out about the cheating after she left. I was heartbroken after she left, but when I found out the real story (looking at email) I was angry instead of heartbroken.
What in the world were they thinking?
CW
Santa Barbara, CA
Re:STBXW Was having affair. jtim10: Beats me. And why the heck did she save all his letters and pic.'s etc....... WTF?
Re:STBXW Was having affair. pluscachange: [quote author=jtim10 link=board=1;threadid=12018;start=0#msg98984 date=1117034317">
Beats me. And why the heck did she save all his letters and pic.'s etc....... WTF?
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Good question. Maybe she subconsciously wanted you to find out? Is she tech savvy, with computers I mean? If not, maybe she just didn't know how to delete them. If she knows the business end of a keyboard though, I have to wonder about if my first statement is on mark?
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