Re:anger management riversandlakes: You're welcome, Chantal.
I was sure I could relate to anger seemingly consuming inside out, but I didn't post up there. Anyway, being macho man sort-of, she leaving me on a FIRST outstation business trip bruised my ego very, very badly.
WTH IS THIS?! Are we this shallow?!
Anger aflame. Now I see that her reactions were similar to those who have never seen this part of their long-time partners.
Words, actions, fiery words, sharp words, downright nasty ones.
Hey, don't walk over this gentleman; he has a few sarcastic punches and kung-fu pills up his sleeves. Just because I remain calm and peaceful 99.99% of the time doesn't mean I don't use nasty words when I MUST.
I think anger helps to expedite healing. Just let the "rain" cool it down. The rain is time. I'm sure you've seen what unmanaged anger pent up within does to the person.
My maternal grandma has always hated my grandpa for leaving her family of NINE 30 years ago. Before leaving, he was a drunkard without a job, and a physical abuser. When he died, she cried. Nobody dared to ask why.
Re:anger management ti-poux: Thank you River,
Makes a whole lot of sense. You are a wise one.
And I know what anger can do to people. I have
never been one to hold a grudge, I usualy say what is
on my mind and move on.
That is why I want this hatred to leave me, or should I say I want to let go of that negative feeling. I have to much going for me to waste it on the past.
I prayed, alot and tried to meditate as well last night,
I feel much better this morning. I have to keep my chin up, walk proud and expect happiness in my life.
Again thank you....wise one
Chantal
