Weee :[ redsuitcase: Where to begin. My story. I started dating a man long distance in late January. He'd recently broken up with his on again off again ex with whom he shares a five year old daughter. Needless to say, our 'rebound' relationship progressed faster than we really got to know each other...and when he was done with me and my unconditional support, he broke it off...slowly...but eventually completely. We last spoke a couple of weeks ago when he told me we shouldn't try to be friends...he'd met someone new. I have been hurt, but am working through it...highlighting reasons he is not good for me, reasons our relationship wasn't healthy, etc, etc.
If anyone is looking to rebound into someone, please don't. Sure, go on casual dates to re-boost your self-esteem and get your mind off things, but PLEASE ...don't use someone to 'fix' yourself. It's quite selfish.
Re:Weee :[ riversandlakes:
"quite selfish" is an understatement. To do onto others what was done unto you, knowing the immense amount of pain that is the price to pay, is perhaps, inhuman...