Dating for sex
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Dating for sex hudson: Is it ok to date someone primarily for the sex if you let them know that you aren't interested in much more?

Do you think that MOST people looking for dates are mainly just looking for someone to have sex with and maybe a little extra companionship? Or do you think that MOST people date because they are looking for Mr. of Mrs. Right?
Re:Dating for sex jillieb44: I could be in an exclusive relationship with someone who may NOT be Mr. Right and have sex, yeah, for the companionship and affection primarily, without him having to be *the one* or be interested in *marrying*.

My opinion.

I will NOT, however, just date around and have sex with just anyone; I need to get to know and trust them first; sex is very personal with me and I need to care about the person also. Do I have to be head over heels *in love* to do that? No. But mutual respect and caring goes a long way.

Jillie


Re:Dating for sex hudson: But don't you think the whole point of dating is to get to a point where each person feels comfortable having sex?
Re:Dating for sex AmyMarie1972: I think that as long as the other person knows this then there is nothing wrong with it. It does need to be made clear from the start though.
I think that it is fifty fifty on whether people are dating to look for Mr/Mrs Right or dating just to have some fun with no real plans on a serious relationship developing.
Amy
Re:Dating for sex voidinside: Ummm...doesn't this coincide with the 'Playa' thread? :P

I guess if two adults could stick to an agreement to meaningless sex that would be ok.

I've always been the one-on-one, all-or-nothing sort of guy, but if approached with that option, I don't think I'd turn it down these days.

However, I know for me, that kind of thing just doesn't happen.

I guess it would depend on the situation, but most guys would definitely be looking for a bed buddy and most women would be looking for Mr. Right.

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