filing jimloveless: just got back from the lawyer's office. so long as this is not contested, the entire divorce process will be under $500. i don't think she'll contest, but if she does i won't care. it will just prove to me that she doesn't have an ounce of decency left in her. i feel tired today.
irreconcilable differences... it sounds so easy on paper. so explainable. so understandable. i signed my name and just felt emptiness walking out of the building. went to a circle-K and treated myself to a bottle of chocolate milk, but it didn't do much for me. meloncholy... i thought i grew out of this when i stopped listening to the cure.
Re:filing reck: My worst day was getting the property settlement agreement in the post, it was very early on in the what i call "The Troubles" .....it was basically the actual divorce.
Reading it only a week after agreeing to seperate (but still living in hope) was quite a blow.
(in New Zealand the property agreement is pretty much it, two years seperation later its just rubber stamped)
Re:filing jimloveless: this day isn't too bad for me, fortunately. just sort of odd, I guess. Of course, i've had two months to prepare. had this been the second week, i'd be a wreck.
i guess i shouldn't be too quick to gauge my own feelings. i was taken off gaurd last night by a rogue crying fit. but it's all starting to level off for the most part, i think. i can be pretty rational while looking at my situation now. most of the time.
Re:filing turning leaf: Hey Jim, when I got my notice of entry of judgment in the mail, I found myself shaking. It's like being doused with ultra-freezing cold water. After that, it's all good!
Lots of points of no return but I felt that was the last nail on the coffin.
Re:filing jimloveless: i figure if i'm going to get hit again, it will come in the courtroom, or right afterword. bleh. i want it to be all overwith right now. i wish i could see the look on her face when she gets served.
no, scratch that. i'd probably be disappointed.
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