Saw the ex...felt neutral

Saw the ex...felt neutral gypsy: So a lot of you know that I have gone through a really hard time this past month...my divorce and my friend's suicide.

Well after my separation and ultimately my divorce I was really depressed, couldn't get outta bed, blah blah blah...I made the no contact rule with my ex except for business related things...didn't really talk to him much after the divorce and didn't really want anything to do with him even though I really didn't want to believe that it was over...maybe I kept thinking he would come back to me.

Well...this didn't happen today, but a couple of days ago he called me to ask how I was doing after my friend's suicide and he invited me to go out with him and another friend...so I went...didn't want to be alone - and guess what??????????????

[size=7"> I FELT NEUTRAL!!!!![/size">

Like he was just a friend to hang out with...I didn't feel anger, sadness, NOTHING!!!

Could this mean I am ready to move on with my life? I sure hope so!!!!!

PS. He was kind of annoying in the ways that always bugged me before ;D
Re:Saw the ex...felt neutral jimloveless: how long has it been since you separated, gypsy?

i'd like to test the waters on this myself, but my stbx is on the other side of the state.

Re:Saw the ex...felt neutral gypsy: j-

We separated in September of last year, but things had been pretty bad for a while before then...probably got worse and worse starting in December of 2003 then I moved out in September of 2004, but we were trying to work things out until about March 2005 when he decided to move on with someone else. Divorce was finalized on May 3...so - although we were separated for a while, we really ended everything around March.

It's good to feel nothing for him...I really feel like this is what we are all looking for as far as closure and moving on...

Re:Saw the ex...felt neutral Blueyes424: Gypsy,

Sounds to me like you are over him. It's a good feeling. I have come to that level myself. Now my ex calls to harass me, but the joke is on him.....I've blocked his cell phone number from coming through on mine, and I've blocked his email so that I can't receive anymore. If he really wants to talk to me, he has to call my mom and dad's house, and if he's dumb enough to do that..................I feel kinda bad for him, especially if my dad answers!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Good for you honey!! Feels GREAT doesn't it?

~Blue