Re:Cheaters Not Welcome!! hudson: Usually, if a cheater posts and tries to excuse their deed as though it weren't their fault, someone will post and them know what's up. Cheating is easily one of the slimiest things a person can do. Period! I have trouble offering sympathy to cheaters. But if someone is truly seeking help, i'll do my best.
Re:Cheaters Not Welcome!! jt5639: I feel really strongly about this and need to reply. I understand you are hurt, but this is a support group and we need to remember that and know that all different kinds of people from all differnet aspects of divorce are here for support. If you can't give that to them - FINE - but how dare you say someone is not welcome? It is not your right simply because someone hurt you to generalize all people who have cheated. Just don't read their posts, don't support them, and don't vent about it on this forum - it's not the place for that.
jt
Re:Cheaters Not Welcome!! hudson: Jt, um, i just read through so_lost's posts here in this thread and nowhere did he say cheaters aren't welcome. Cool it. This is his vent, and as long as he doesn't personally attack someone, he's got every right to vent. So there!
Re:Cheaters Not Welcome!! jt5639: blazin',
The title of the post is cheaters not welcome. And, no he is not specifically attacking a certain poster - you are right, but he his IS attacking a general "those who have cheated" group of people who post here. And I feel that in a public support group forum that's not ok - call it posting etiquitte, call it what you will - it sets up a hostile environment. I'm going to take my own advice now and move on from this post.
jt
Re:Cheaters Not Welcome!! hudson: nobody attacked anybody. Jeez.
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