Re:Cheaters Not Welcome!! So_Lost: Hey its my vent!
Re:Cheaters Not Welcome!! jimloveless: LOL!
vent on, brutha! there is no ettiquette to venting.
Re:Cheaters Not Welcome!! jtim10: Most of the cheaters I have seen on these boards are feeling like crap, as they should! The thing is it seems like cheaters never learn!
Re:Cheaters Not Welcome!! ColoHill: You know, I found out yesterday morning that my husband has been cheating on me. :'( He even tried to lie about it when I took definite proof to him. I have no sympathy for those who cheat. And, I don't think you should come here lookin for it. You all who cheat and then ask for a shoulder to cry on really bother me. Why should we feel bad for you when you get what you got coming? What is so hard about just saying "NO" people? I guess it is not my place to judge all. I have just NEVER heard an excuse that truely could justify doing that to someone you love. I mean, if you really love them.........
Re:Cheaters Not Welcome!! sheydp: Oh... it is so hard when you first find out... And I know when you are in the middle of the worst pain of your life it is really hard to have sympathy for people who put others through that pain... Hopefully when you have some time and distance, you will be able to take their stories and ease your heart.
When we are first hurt, we NEED to be angry, unforgiving, even hate a little sometimes... But with time, forgiveness and even understanding become the more important healing tools. You can get that by seeing the stories of the cheaters. Until then... just stay away from those threads. They don't help you, and posting to them doesn't help the cheaters. It is hard, at the stage you are in, to see the value of them and their stories - and that is ok - but know that their value is appreciated here by others, and try to just be selective where you linger... I am SOOO sorry for your pain!!!
Shey
PS (not a cheater!!!)
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