Re:My Gay Husband. Unfortunately. penguin: LOL Ya, my b/f can't handle our daughter for more than five minutes without screaming at her about something. Dontcha love that? It's their kid and they can't stand to be alone with them without going nutzo! ???
Re:My Gay Husband. Unfortunately. frostymxz01: I have been there too, as one of the previous posters said apparently I was used as cover so things would seem normal with my ex.
It is just an awful situation, but I guess they are who they are.
No matter how bad you may think you have or had been, it has nothing to do with it. It hurts because you just dont stop loving someone immediately just because they finally revealed their secret.
Just keep going, things will look up!
Re:My Gay Husband. Unfortunately. Tarheel: Well, look at the bright side...
...if he gave you the infamous "It's not you, it's me" line, it would probably be safe to assume that he was telling you the truth.
Re:My Gay Husband. Unfortunately. wowee: Ok, so I have to say I have recently had a similar situation. My husband - of 10 years, has just recently left. He is completely denying he is gay, but has had a "friendship" with a man for over a year now. HAS to talk with him daily - if not several times a day. I found where he was on websites searching out men & women to hook up with. He is into all kinds of sick stuff & I have to say I am scared to ever leave our two children alone with him now. There was NEVER a hint that he could be gay. He is a Marine, used to fight on the Marine Corp boxing team, has always played the "yuckiness" up whenever there is a hint of two men together & now I am at a loss. He even tries to blame the fact that I gained weight while pregnant with our children. Insists that if I had kept myself more attractive he wouldn't have been tempted by other women or men. I've known about this now for 6 months, we are seperated & pending a divorce. But I must say after all I know now I feel like I have wated so much of my life loving a man who obviously never could have loved me.
