I just really don't know what to believe Emotional Mess: I hope you all don't get sick of hearing from me about this but I really need to get some opinions.
My husband left me a little over 2mos ago; our divorce will be final on the 20th of this month (I filed). He is a drug addict and he has done so many terrible things to me but he says he was unhappy with me, that's why he left me for another drug addict. Everybody who knows us, even his own family all tell me that he didn't leave me for this other girl or because he was unhappy with ME but he left me for the drugs. I just don't really know what to believe. I do know in my heart that 98% of our problems were because of his drug problem but he has just made me believe for so long that I was the problem that it's sometimes hard for me to believe that I wasn't. I can not think of any reason why he would have been so unhappy with me; I sure as hell tried my hardest to make this marriage work.
Re:I just really don't know what to believe So_Lost: Take it from someone who knows. I have 2 relatives who are drug users, and they have ruined every persons life who has come in contact with them.
IT WASNT YOU! ITS THE DRUGS!
Re:I just really don't know what to believe NoEscape: This may be a simplistic reply but here goes...
Chances are if hes a drug addict he probably doesnt have a lot of love for himself. If you cant love yourself your going to really have a rough time loving someone else.Plus I would guess he would take comfort in someone who has the same addiction as him...maybe feeling she truly "understands" him and his habit. I would not take what he says at face value if drugs are that big of a problem. Is this hardcore drug use ? Like heroin or something?
Re:I just really don't know what to believe Emotional Mess: Yes, he is a Crack addict and I have heard she's a Meth addict.
Re:I just really don't know what to believe ouch: I agree with NoEscape, it wasn't you, it was his inabilitiy to love himself. Addicts are great at fooling themselves into thinking they know reality. Don't let his skewed reality become yours.
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