Re: divorce over(abuse)can't forgive or forget! ithurts: I don't know if i'm on the right comment board. the biggest challenge is she is Bi-Polar & when I finally told her she needed Meds, she wanted a Divorce.who knows about what i have to look forwrd to concerning my Divorce from a women who has been truley the one who has emotionally abused me for our 5 years of marriage. i have been accused of so many things and have gone to so many marriage counslers, WHAT Should I BE Looking forward to now.... remember Bi-Polar Dissorder... Oh I Am Going to get my Divorce 4 sure no Matter how broke i become.. God knows I have tried ... she has caused me so much Damage & it just won't stop ???
Re: divorce over(abuse)can't forgive or forget! Samarra: Bi-Polar disorder (manic depression) is one hell of a disease....like depression..but with episodes of mania (extreme highs...delusions of grandeur...episodes of psychosis)
What you have to look forward to I'm sorry to say is a woman..who...without medication will be a nightmare to deal with.
She cannot think rationally and so you will have to do it for the both of you.
Take whatever steps you need for a seperation or divorce....stay healthy...see a therapist for yourself...you're going to need it.
I'm not sure what other advice you are looking for? Hope this helps.
Re: divorce over(abuse)can't forgive or forget! ithurts: Thanx 4 the feed back. I just needed to unload to people who i don't know.
The message that she left me tonight was off the wall. I guess its so hard to believe she has so many people fooled about who SHE really is & what She is Hiding. Lots of books on Bi-Polar Disorder say that u first notice it with someone in the family I Did her (MOM). I have been told by good friends that it is only a matter of time before all of the friends that she is munipulating will figure it out. I know she is trying to get me to respond but i will & have not & its making her feel she not in CONTROL. "Hate to say it" but i have allowed her to "control me" for so long out of this Guilt that BI-Polars do to People.....Does this sound Familair to ant one ??????[color=limegreen"> [/color">
Re: divorce over(abuse)can't forgive or forget! Samarra: Keep unloading....that's what we're here for!
Genetics plays a huge part in any chemical imbalance...so that if someone in her immediate family has it (i.e..mom..dad..grandmother..etc.) she stands a good chance of developing it.
Good for you in not responding to the manipulation...this will only make it worse...as manic depressives feed of this attention.
Please do whatever you can for you...being around someone who is mentally unstable will affect you also as I'm sure you know.
Re: divorce over(abuse)can't forgive or forget! ithurts: Thanx Samarra......... Got ot go ..... Whom ever is in pain tonight you are in my Prayers.. God Bless...
Click More for the next page.
