Re:About to separate Shanna: Welcome to Ojar!!! Glad you found us....hopefully someone here will have some great advice.
Doubt it helps any, but I think my stbxh was upset at me for having an extra 20 lbs and that is another on the list of why he cheated. AND he is mad at me now bc I lost it AFTER we are no longer together. ::)
Re:About to separate Samarra: Good for you...you have a good attitude. We can't control others' feelings or actions but we an control our reactions to it.
After such a life-changing experience I would imagine your wife is confused. All those feelings she's been stuffing down...she needs to deal with. Give her the time and space (I know it's hard) and hopefully she'll come around. Just keep that positve attitude...and when you feel yourself start to slide...come talk to us.
