Re:Over, but not? Samarra: :) :) :) :D ;D
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Re:Over, but not? sacoderisa: as I discovered, advice is easier given than followed. Otherwise, we would be perfect. From the moment a friend tells you (before you get with your bf/gf) don't go with him/her, we don't follow the advice, and go blindly into a relationship. Also, how many times we didn't obbey what our parents said, and we got hurt? Of course, following advice is not easy, much less done all the time. But sometimes, it sure helps. Look, if he says he still loves you, well, he will understand if you give him all his stuff. Just say it, "i need my space as well then". Trust me, i know how hard it is, my current xgf calls every day, more than once a day, and I just answer, she comes and visits, and even spends the night over here. She told me she don't love me........so, It's only fools gold what i have. Hopefully you will get out of it before it gets to that. Move on, is the best for you. Specially if you don't have children. I have to talk to my x because i have a baby with her, and since she hints....well with actions, not with words, that she still interested in me, I got to wait, I just want the best for my lil one. so, if you can, put space between you guys, make him miss you. and you will get him back.