Re:afraid of love terry7350: wow your my best freind now lol i know what you are going thrugh as well my wife has SSRI aspergers syndrome depression schizophrenia and bipolar disoder and has ran away on me 2 and i know she heing hold from me so beleve me know and it hurts so bad its so hard to know if there going to be ok 1 min and hurt you the next
Re:afraid of love riversandlakes: [quote author=Samarra link=board=1;threadid=13029;start=0#msg107711 date=1118514597">
I have loved someone with all that is in my heart...just like you. So many people do.
It is sad when they don't/can't love us back the way we want them too.
The feelings of helplessness and frustration are inevitable...but what can you do ultimately but let go?? Not only for their sake...but yours? I'm sorry for your pain...it's so palpable in your posts...but try to detach a little. Give her time to think things over. This is not an overnight process...for some it takes years...especially when there's abuse involved.
The best gift we can give people we love sometimes is the time they need to work out their own issues. When she is able to do this...maybe she will see the love you have for her.
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Egyptian wisdom...
What can I do but ultimately let go? I seek answers in almost everything, but some answers are not meant to be found - if found, not meant to be understood.
How on earth did we go wrong, going so great?
Perhaps loving someone and letting that one person go has its own hidden wisdom?
