Dont be angry or resentfull mine: just read and understand
Re:Dont be angry or resentfull wowee: I am not angry - but sad - and I AM resentful. I trusted someone who betrayed my trust & then treated me like I deserved it. How do I get to the point where I can understand this when I could never do this to someone. I wish I were not sad & I wish I were not resentful, but I am not there yet. I wonder if I will ever get there.
Re:Dont be angry or resentfull Cowboy12: sorry mine, have I missed something here ..was their an article or was that the point ...don't be angry or resentful...
I do like the quote...."Resentment is like swallowing poison and hoping the other person dies"
Re:Dont be angry or resentfull sheydp: wowee - you WILL get there... sometimes you need to be sad and resentful - til the pain eases. When it eases, you may not understand as in "I would have done that too" but you may get to where you can understand the things you could to learn from your history... and that it is ok to let it go. You WILL get there... but don't worry that you aren't there yet.
Shey
PS Cowboy - I think the read it part was just the title - just the suggestion itself...
Re:Dont be angry or resentfull riversandlakes: bad deeds and sin enables a person to go down to hell. all religions teach so. why, then, do there exist evil people throughout all the lands in the world?
another thing not meant to be understood...
i'm concluding that there is nothing to understand out of this heartshattering episode of our lives. they morph because they morph.
be it "out of sight, out of mind."
be it "spent too much time with the colleague - ALONE."
be it simply b*tchy (even for guys).
be it immaturity.
be it innert inability to cherish years. let's all live till 80 years old. 4 years in 80 is 5%!
be it truly selfishness of using us for keeping them company these many years. she admitted, be it out of anger or annoyance (as if she has a right to be so), that she is selfish and cares only for her own happiness. at that moment, i wish she meets someone who thinks along the same line. then God has avenged me.
