Re:New around here genesplicer: Thanks for all the support everyone.
As for sounding so calm, I think it's mostly the exhaustion setting in. :) It's been 4 weeks that has felt like a year. I guess I've stopped trying to beat myself up about it since I don't really know what happened. Of course we had problems, but I was convinced it wasn't anything we couldn't work through (he apparently had other ideas).
Unfortunately over the last few years I've given up most of my friends and have spent most of my time with his friends, who conveniently rallied around him when he left. So there isn't much to be gathered from them. The few things I have heard tell me that my stbx doesn't seem to be affected at all with what is going on and is back to single life in full swing...
I guess the bottom line for me has to be that he really did change and sure as he!! isn't the man I fell in love with. I feel pretty silly for not seeing it coming.
It's just so infuriating and confusing to be cast aside for seeminly no reason after so long.
