Re:Anyone else feel like they got all the crap while the ex gets to play? SB: I often feel this way, but have to remind myself that he's the one that is going to realize one-day that he missed out on all the milestones in his kids lives and be full of regrets.
I may have to do all the work but I am also getting all the priceless rewards :)
Re:Anyone else feel like they got all the crap while the ex gets to play? dazedanddivorcing: Freovir,
Sounds like you are one of the few good ones left...my ex feels like if he pays child support that he shouldn't have to watch them on top of that--unless it is convenient for him. I guess that means if he is not tired or has no other plans...
Good luck to you--hope your kids stop singing that "mom's better than dad" song!
Re:Anyone else feel like they got all the crap while the ex gets to play? dreamerpoet: [quote author=dazedanddivorcing link=board=20;threadid=13044;start=0#msg109010 date=1118840030">
Freovir,
...my ex feels like if he pays child support that he shouldn't have to watch them on top of that--unless it is convenient for him. [/quote">
Dazed,
Yeah I got one of thoes too. Unfortunately like Freovir my kids still think dad is the coolest. I take comfort in the fact that I do get those precious moments he doesn't and when my kids are old enough to understand they will see what really goes on and make a judgement for themselves. I know that if they learn for themselves they won't have any resentment toward me like they would if I were to talk crap on their dad. So every night we "God bless dad" and I bite my tongue and said yes God bless dad.
Re:Anyone else feel like they got all the crap while the ex gets to play? So_Lost: One of your kids is named Draven? Do you have an Eric there too?
;D
Re:Anyone else feel like they got all the crap while the ex gets to play? lewis0416: I felt that way at first. My ex left for another woman. He left me with four kids. HE pays for daycare for the youngest and thats is. He gets to act like Mr Bachelor with no kids. H*l no. I went to court. He now has the kids 3 weekends a month so I get a break. Its hard raising four children. Actually I am happy because the kids favor me over him. I fell bad though because the kids are starting to notice that thier dad is ignoring them. Karma is a b**ch though. In the end he will be the one who sffers. I am the lucky one. I get to see our 4 beautiful children grow up. Oh and I found a wonderful man who loves the kids and spoils them rotten.
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