Re:Lots of reading... some questions ajw: She's going to turn the water works on...if you think you can handle it,do it at lunch...Also you said she's looking for a place.....ask her to move out so you can move back,its your house!.She's the one who went outside the marriage(5 F**king times),she should be the one to leave.Please,please,please do yourself a favour and dont cave in and take her back,she will only break your heart again,she has a lot of growing up to do before she's a woman worthy of being your wife.
Good luck
Andy
Re:Lots of reading... some questions ti-poux: You want to have lunch with her to tell her you need a break???
Well only you know what to do, Do you think you might gain anything with lunch? I personaly would skip lunch,
I would just not contact her at all, no e-mail no text and do not anwser any calls from her.
Absence makes the heart grow fonder plus you will really know then if she really wants you or is just playing with you.
hope this helps
Chantal
Re:Lots of reading... some questions doctorcue: AJW, well the reason I left is because we are staying with our inlaws. We were in the process of saving up for a house. So I left because it is her & her parents (although her parents back me up & fully support me) house.
I'm going to see her in person and tell her this. I need to. Over the phone seems coward like. She may cry, I might get choked up, but I have to look in her eye when I say it. Not to guage her reaction, but to enforce that I mean it.
You guys are great, thank you for the insight & support. I'll post up when I get back.
Re:Lots of reading... some questions ajw: Well good luck....just please dont fall for it when she starts crying,this woman manipulates men for fun...she does it because she loves men to pay her attention.Make sure she knows your not playing her game anymore.
Good luck
Andy
Re:Lots of reading... some questions ChristyM: [quote"> but to enforce that I mean it[/quote">
Just so you're sure you can really do this. As a woman, I know we are pretty good at manipulating and from what you've written, I don't see her as being the exception.
Stay strong and get rid of that opinion that ANY action on your part should be deemed cowardly. That's just wrong.
Christy
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