Seek and you shall find... SrABlue: Its not enough to have my wife cheat on me, then tell me she cant take it anymore, but to within one month of doing so tell the person she cheated on me with she loves him?!!
For the past couple weeks Ive been making my arrrangements to move out so the kids can stay in the current school district with my wife. And during that time things between the two of us have been OK, We were talking, watching movies, dinner etc.Even being affectionate some. Iwas actually starting to think maybe things were getting better, but this morning my curiosity got the best of me and I found a phone text that my wife sent her "friend" telling him how much she misses him and that she loves him. Now keep in mind this guy is in FL at the same time handling things with his own seperation. I cant beleive it, my wife swore up and down that the cheating was a "mistake" and the two of them really were just friends. I even called this prick and he was like "were just friends man".Ooh you lieing scumbags...
Now I guess some people would say well you are seperated, but my wife said it had nothing to do with anybody else. The more I look into it (phone bills, E Mails, etc) I find out thats not the case.
I brought this up to my wife and she got mad with me. And then I heard her making a call outside telling the guy "if he calls you just hang up and Ill take care of it"...
Man I am in flames right now >:(
I guess the point is my wife made the whole seperation thing seem like a "space" needer and that we would try to work things out.But honestly for the past month all I see is her taking her new found freedom and going out all the time, flirting with numerous dudes, and then telling her good friend how she loves him.
Re:Seek and you shall find... paolanc: You are not alone, I am already divorced she left me, but now after 1 yr later I feel that she has been cheating on me,I confronted her about it and she denies it, but my son told about a person who comes over the house to see momma.
All we can do is just take one day at a time.
Re:Seek and you shall find... riversandlakes: she admits to cheating and continues to be friends with the guy? how's that for walking contradiction?
couples need to have honesty and trust, and it needs to be provided mutually. ask her to end this "friendship" with the other guy. it is not too much to ask for, and if she won't, or lie about that...
it tells you all you need to know about her true colors. i'm so sorry you met yet another one of the breed.
abuse of "space and time" is so unjustifiably common it's like dust in the air. usually abused to check out the seriousness of the OM/OW. Mine was, many were.
as always, there's nothing you can do after you tried to make things work and she is abusing the "space and time". hope for the best, but prepare for the worst. one won't be mad if one has nothing to hide.
you are allowed to accuse me of losing my hair (very sensitive), but i won't be mad, because i know i chose to cut it 1mm short; not because of balding.
