Re:I asked to see him for our anniversary francesca: Okay, so I'm really thinking about not going to see him this week. Maybe a talk over the phone would be better. Is it wrong to not try one last time?
I've always been one to try like hell and then call it quits when there is nothing left for me to do. I really do feel like i've tried everything to reach this man. Am I crazy for wanting to try YET again?
Re:I asked to see him for our anniversary jt5639: Of course you're not crazy. Only you can decide when you've done enough. But a whole lot of things factor into that - at least for me. No, I did not beg, I did not try absolutely everything. But there's a point for us all when we've done all we're willing to do. I personally realized I don't want to have to convince someone to be with me. I think there is nothing wrong with a little hope as long as your actions are moving you forward without him. Is meeting him moving you in a direction you want to go?
Re:I asked to see him for our anniversary francesca: I can't believe how similar our feelings can be without even knowing each other! It amazes me to no end. I miss him so much today. I was having a smoke on the fire escape last night, by myself, thinking..I am so ALONE. I have incredible sadness that is still very raw. When I wake up all alone, it just hurts me so much. At first I thought it was a fear thing...but I know I am strong. I just miss HIM. I don't think I was a good wife, not the kind of wife that I wanted to be, and it makes me ashamed. I let my bitterness take over (since i felt so neglected). I could have been the bigger, more loving person, couldn't I have? The question is, if I try to reach him again, will he even consider a reunion? Probably not. I need answers and I am also aware that I might never get them from him.
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[quote"> I don't think I was a good wife, not the kind of wife that I wanted to be, and it makes me ashamed. I let my bitterness take over (since i felt so neglected). I could have been the bigger, more loving person, couldn't I have?[/quote">
Oh god, this hit hard. I feel you right here. Actually, I hear you all the way. On our anniversary I txt him "happy anniversary". Sad huh? I felt sorry for myself. Thing is... does he know how you feel? Does he know that you admit to being wrong?
And, I'm just asking cus in my case, I wouldn't admit to it. I had my pride and I didn't want to even consider me being wrong.
The fact that I know now where my mistakes were makes me hopeful for the future of our relationship. He knows exactly what I want and I know exactly what he wants.
As for the meeting on your anniversary... do you have something to tell him? What would this meeting be for?
Re:I asked to see him for our anniversary rjack0612: No you are not wrong. I am in NJ too so I know how long everything takes. My anniversay was on Sunday. We talked for a bit and it went nowhere but you are right to try. Funny, I like you wanted things to work out for so long but now after the talk/talks I am sure that is what I don't want. Don't confuse being lonely with still being in love. Just proceed with caution. As always if you want to talk just ask.
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