Re:So he says he called "her" again sourpuss: suggest to him to block her # on his cel.
you may get the answer you are looking for from his face at that moment.
you need to to take a little time and think about what you need to happen for you to move past this. is there something he can do that would make you feel more secure? change cel #'s, maybe? simply ignore her calls? block the calls? anything else you can think of?
it takes a long time to restore trust once it's been lost, but in addition to him earning your trust back, you will have to take a leap of faith. if you don't think you will ever be able to do it, you're just torturing yourself staying with a man you don't trust.
Re:So he says he called "her" again ColoHill: I'm not trying to be sexist but how come the women are on the "I understand, here is a suggestion" thing and the guy is on the "your judging him already" thing?
Just curious.
Said he went to work the other night. My friend called because she saw him heading out of our neighborhood...When I said what town he was going to, she said, that was funny because he was heading in the opposite direction.... :-\
"HHUMMMMMMMMM--HHUMMMMMMMMM" (Meditating ;))
Just waiting to see...Don't want to jump to conclusions...
Re:So he says he called "her" again defuzer: MissingU:
Speaking from my personal experience, I wouldn't trust him. Actions speak louder than words as they say.
Re:So he says he called "her" again penguin: I've noticed that cell phones cause a lot of problems and contribute to infidelity... (just my view) I suggest that you ask him if you can carry around his cell phone for one whole day. But you'd have to do it on a day without warning. You don't want to give him the chance to call "her" and let her know not to call that day. See what happens.... Just my 2 cents...
Re:So he says he called "her" again sourpuss: i don't know if they contribute to infidelity, but the stbx's certainly contributed to his getting caught.
one of the 1st times i started to seriously believe that he was not "just friends" with the ow was the day we were at her house and i had his phone and noticed a text message from her. no biggie, we were all friends, right? when she saw me looking at the display, she THREW herself accross the room and grabbed the phone from me, saying "oh i was going to buy the same phone as him, i just want to see something on this one....".
when she handed the phone back, she had deleted the message.
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