Re:So he says he called "her" again Shanna: Some phone companies make it so you can access your phone records online....maybe you could find out quicker that way???
I agree, innocent until proven guilty. I also know it is easier said than done.
I would block her number and then not tell him and then see if he says she called again, but I am shady like that.
Re:So he says he called "her" again ColoHill: Well, we don't have a home phone. We only have cell phones because it was cheaper that way and we were almost never home anyway. I have checked with the carrier and they said that I can not check any of the calls until they are billed...At that point, I will check them on-line. That is how I got her number to start with.
Re:So he says he called "her" again Runehawk: It sounds to me as if you have already made your mind up, regardless of the bill... no?
Re:So he says he called "her" again sourpuss: suggest to him to block her # on his cel.
you may get the answer you are looking for from his face at that moment.
you need to to take a little time and think about what you need to happen for you to move past this. is there something he can do that would make you feel more secure? change cel #'s, maybe? simply ignore her calls? block the calls? anything else you can think of?
it takes a long time to restore trust once it's been lost, but in addition to him earning your trust back, you will have to take a leap of faith. if you don't think you will ever be able to do it, you're just torturing yourself staying with a man you don't trust.
Re:So he says he called "her" again ColoHill: I'm not trying to be sexist but how come the women are on the "I understand, here is a suggestion" thing and the guy is on the "your judging him already" thing?
Just curious.
Said he went to work the other night. My friend called because she saw him heading out of our neighborhood...When I said what town he was going to, she said, that was funny because he was heading in the opposite direction.... :-\
"HHUMMMMMMMMM--HHUMMMMMMMMM" (Meditating ;))
Just waiting to see...Don't want to jump to conclusions...
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