Replacement value charmed: I'll never understand why a man (not everyone LOL and I'm speaking from experience) can so easily trade in a good, loving, commited relationship for the attention from a stripper. What is so enticing? Why do they SUDDENLY feel they aren't happy once they see a new a**???
Can't they LOGICALLY see that these women are PAID to give them attention?
I'm not the only one that has experienced this. I know of other relationships where married men go to strip clubs, massage parlors, etc and STILL claim they love their wives. I don't get it and especially when the wives/gf's are doing everything to please their man.
I don't think I'll ever get it! Oh I can come up with excuses why they do this, but I still NEVER get it!!!
Re:Replacement value mine: you know why........because he knows he can not get close....so he will surround himself with people that can not hurt him......
Re:Replacement value Samarra: A strippers' job is to seduce, entice. She needs to make the man feel "special" Unfortunately some men fall for this,maybe out of loneliness...maybe they're just ripe for it. Good strippers know how to spot a mark (re: easy target) and they'll work him all night long...C'mon back baby...I'll take your money anytime!
Seriously though alot of men jut go for the fun and eye candy. I'm not above seeing a hot guy strip!
Re:Replacement value charmed: I know that is one reason, "mine", but for myself, I cannot comprehend the "exchange" in something so superficial and throwing away "substance" and what is left in the end....? How can they ever feel good about themselves if they keep screwing up relationships in this way?
I'm just venting LOL I know the "logics" :D
Re:Replacement value Samarra: Any man who throws away a good solid relationship for a stripper...well...do I have to say it? Really not worth my time or energy. Illusion and fantasy are best left where they belong. This is the real world...and this guy is looking to escape. Set him free...bye-bye!
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